What you were saying about your gut feeling really got to me. I think that especially when we are not "the type" to do something normally, we should especially look into it when we suddenly feel like something is off. Of course that doesn't necessarily mean spying of any sort (though I don't think what you did in your case was wrong), but trusting our gut feeling instead of feeling like something might be wrong with it or even us. I am glad that you were able to find out and leave the relationship! Thank you for sharing

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